Bad Feelings During Breastfeeding: D-MER

Some mothers have a little known syndrome called Dysphoric Milk-Ejection Reflex, or D-Mer. It is the experience of sad or otherwise disturbing feelings just prior to or in the first minute or so of breastfeeingyour baby.

I rarely come upon a personal story of D-MER, but I saw this one thismorning from A is for Akari and I wanted to share it so that those of you who have this can see what others in your situation have experienced. It's always good to know you're not the only one out there!

For more stories on the symptoms of D-MER, visit this page for quotes from other mothers who've had it.

Photo credit: © Vladislav Gansovsky – Fotolia

About Katherine Stone

is the founder of Postpartum Progress. She has been named a WebMD Health Hero, one of the fiercest women in America by More magazine, and one of the top 20 Social Media Moms by Working Mother magazine. She is a survivor of postpartum OCD.

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  1. im really worried if breastfeeding my baby while im mad is bad?